We
were discussing about females virginity yesterday and someone was like
the only way to know if a girl is a virgin is that it's a must every
girl bleeds during her first sex and am sure majority have same mindset
and this is wrong Bleeding doesn't determine a girl is a virgin so I
decided to release this article to help
educate our young men and women on this issue of girls bleeding during
first sex THE MYTH ABOUT FEMALE VIRGINITY -why most women won't bleed
the first time they have sex.
There's a very common myth in South and
Central Asia (Pakistan, India, Bangladesh, Afghanistan etc.) and Africa
(Nigeria and many other nations ) that you can tell if a woman is a
virgin, by whether or not she bleeds the first time she has sex. There
is zero truth in this. Not all women bleed the first time they have sex,
as I'll explain in this post. To understand why some women bleed and
some don't, it's very important to understand what the hymen is. The
hymen is a membrane that tends to cover part of the vaginal opening (it
does not always block or cover the entire vagina, as some people
mistakenly think). NOT ALL WOMEN HAVE A HYMEN. The hymen also differs
from woman to woman - like all women have different heights and weights
and features, all women also have different amounts and types of hymen.
Some women have thick hymens, some have very thin hymens, and some women
have NO hymens at all. Some women have larger hymens, some women
naturally have a very little amount of hymen that covers only a small
portion of their vaginal opening (and hence does not really get in the
way, during first-time sex). In addition to this, the hymen wears away
on its own as you grow up. For most women, the hymen wears away on its
own with exercise, bicycling, horseback riding -it can wear off with
pretty much any other physical activity, even dancing! - or from using
tampons when menstruating. Especially if the hymen is very small or
thin, most of it tends to wear away on its own as a girl grows up. If a
woman is born WITHOUT a hymen, she won't bleed the first time she has
sex. If a woman has a small or thin hymen, she might not bleed the first
time she has sex.
If a woman's hymen has worn away on its own (which is
very common as girls grow up), she won't bleed the first time she has
sex. The result is that the overwhelming majority -at least 63% of women
- will NOT bleed the first time they have sex, according to a study
published by the British Medical Journal. Women who do bleed include: -
Women with thick hymens (who constitute a small percentage of the
population) - Younger girls.
Because the hymen wears away on its own
with time, a 16-year old has a higher chance of bleeding than a 25-year
old. By the time a girl is of or above the legal age of consent - 18,
20, 24 years of age, for example - most of her hymen is likely to have
worn away on its own, meaning it's unlikely that she'll bleed a lot, if
at all. However, even a young girl can be physically active, have a thin
or small hymen, or have no hymen at all, meaning she might not bleed
during first-time sex. - Most often, women who bleed tend to be women
who are dealt with roughly during sex. If the guy forces himself inside
the girl, when she isn't ready, relaxed or aroused enough, he is likely
to cause injury or bleeding. Because most people think it's normal for
women to bleed the first time they have sex, they don't realize that
this bleeding is a result of the woman having been hurt, and not of the
hymen 'breaking.' Painful first-time sex is generally because the woman
is not relaxed or aroused enough, and gets hurt as a result; it is
rarely ever because of the hymen breaking. The bottom line is that there
are other ways to assess female virginity. Bleeding does not guarantee
virginity - it has to do with the kind of hymen a girl has, and hymens
differ from girl to girl from birth.
The result is that only a small
percentage of women bleed the first time! (Only 37% bleed during
first-time sex, according to the study published in the British Medical
Journal.) Why is this so important to be aware of? Women all over the
world get abused, injured and even killed due to the myth of 'virgin
bleeding.' Because most people (men AND women) think that bleeding is a
sign of virginity, women who don't bleed the first time have been
divorced, suffered from suspicion leading to domestic violence and
abuse, and even killed for honour. Educating people that a girl does not
necessarily have to bleed the first time she has sex - because not all
girls have thick hymens, and some are born with no hymen at all - is
important because it can literally save lives. P.S: I understand that
not everyone is able to share material like this, even if they want to.
However, the only way we can educate people regarding this issue is if
it goes into the news feeds of as many people as possible, if as many
people as possible read it. So please consider sharing. If you can't
share, please like, leave a comment or forward it to your friends. We
have to make content like this visible to increase it reach, to educate
people ,to have impact
Tnx guys
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